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Have you ever found yourself thinking, “My manager could really use some managing?” You’re probably right. All of us (managers included) can benefit from more feedback, direction, and support at work.
But managing up isn’t about taking control or telling your boss what to do. It’s about understanding how to work well with higher-ups (and not around them). In this guide, we’re unpacking what managing up really means, why it’s such a powerful skill to develop, and how to do it well – with plenty of practical examples, actionable tips, and research-backed insights.
At first glance, managing up might sound like it involves going over your boss’s head or trying to control their behavior. In reality, learning how to manage up is far more positive and productive than that.
Managing up is about building a strong, effective relationship with your manager so that you can both do your best work. It means understanding your manager’s goals, communication style, and priorities, and then adapting the way you work to help them (and, by extension, your team and company) succeed.
When done well, managing up isn’t manipulative or self-serving. It’s a proactive way to foster alignment, reduce friction, and encourage a more collaborative relationship with your manager – regardless of where you sit in the org chart.
There are various ways to manage up depending on your role, your manager’s style, and your organization’s needs. At its core, it’s about anticipating what your manager needs before they even have to ask and finding ways to make their job easier – while still advocating for yourself and your work.
Here are a few examples of what managing up looks like in action:
Put simply, you can think about managing up like a partnership. It turns the manager-employee relationship from a one-way directive to a two-way collaboration.
You’re not learning how to manage managers – you’re learning how to work more effectively with managers by taking steps to build a productive, collaborative relationship with the person you report to.
This means you can learn how to manage up – it’s not an inherent quality or personality trait. Here are six strategies to help you manage up (without feeling like you’re undermining your boss).
Only 23% of employees say they feel educated on company goals, which means most people are working without a clear sense of purpose. Your first step in managing up is to change that.
Ask your manager what their top two or three priorities are for the quarter and identify how your work connects to those. Check in on those goals regularly, as things can shift and you’ll need to stay on the same page to be as impactful as possible.
Once you know what’s important, follow through. As simple as it sounds, delivering reliably, communicating early when things go off track, and being honest about mistakes or roadblocks is one of the best ways to demonstrate dependability and show your manager that you’re focused on the bigger picture (and not just your own to-do list).
Many employees claim their bosses are bad communicators. But it’s worth asking yourself: Is your boss bad at communicating, or do they just do it differently than you?
Pay attention to how your manager prefers to exchange information and make decisions. Do they like detailed memos or bullet-point updates? Are they comfortable being interrupted, or do they need scheduled check-ins? Do they make decisions on the spot, or do they need time to reflect? Adapting to their preferred style makes your communication much smoother.
You don’t need to take guesses here – ask your manager directly how they prefer to receive information. That gives you the insights you need to adjust your approach, shows your manager that you're proactive, and sets the tone for more open and honest communication.
Managing up means flagging potential problems early – before they become even bigger issues – and simultaneously offering a thoughtful next step. This positions you as more of a partner than an order-taker.
For example, instead of saying, “We’re going to miss this deadline,” try, “We’re running behind because of [reason], but we can get back on track if we [action].” This shows foresight, accountability, and problem-solving, which are traits that all managers value.
It’s hard to overstate the importance of 1-on-1 meetings. When they’re frequent and effective, they have a significant impact on both your satisfaction and engagement. But, it’s also easy for these regular meetings to become random chats or glorified status updates.
Put yourself in the driver’s seat of your own 1-on-1s by coming prepared with three things:
Treat the meeting as a two-way conversation, not a calendar item. When you own the agenda and follow up on action items, your manager sees you as invested in and aligned with larger goals.
Managing up is partially about doing great work – and it’s also about making sure your manager sees and understands the value of that work. It’s your responsibility to make that clear by highlighting not just the tasks you’ve completed, but their outcomes.
For example, rather than saying, “We launched the new onboarding guide,” try, “We launched the new onboarding guide, which has reduced setup time for new hires by 20% so far.”
In addition to helping your manager see how your work supports team and company goals, it also reduces confusion, frustration, and rework. When your manager knows the “why” behind your tasks and projects, they can provide more useful feedback and support.
Giving feedback to your manager (sometimes called upward feedback) might feel like risky territory. But when it’s done thoughtfully and respectfully, it actually strengthens trust and collaboration.
Use the SBI model – that stands for Situation, Behavior, and Impact – to keep your feedback clear and objective. For example: “In last week’s meeting (situation), you asked for input but moved on quickly (behavior). It seemed like fewer people spoke up afterward (impact). Maybe pausing for responses could help.”
This kind of feedback shows you’re invested in shared success, rather than just voicing your personal preferences.
Managing up might seem like it’s outside the scope of your normal job responsibilities. But remember, it’s really about building and maintaining a more beneficial and productive relationship with your boss. That’s not just your manager’s responsibility – it’s yours too.
Additionally, putting the effort into managing up offers several compelling advantages for you, your manager, and your entire organization:
89% of workers are confident in their skills and experience to perform their job. But managing up? That feels like a step above – and it can be daunting.
Fortunately, you don’t learn how to manage up overnight. It takes self-awareness, commitment, and practice. Get started by taking a closer look at yourself and your working relationship with your manager. Ask yourself:
Once you’ve reflected on those questions, you can use what you’ve learned to test small changes. Maybe you’ll shift your 1-on-1 to a time when your manager is more engaged or send key updates in their preferred format. Keep a close eye on what works and what doesn’t so you can continue to adjust accordingly.
If managing up is about employees learning how to work with their managers, the reverse is just as important. Your role as a leader is to create the kind of environment where managing up doesn’t just feel safe – it’s encouraged. That means being open to feedback, communicating priorities clearly, and making space for two-way conversations.
One simple way to strengthen those skills is with Culture Amp’s AI Coach. Powered by Culture Amp’s science-backed leadership development insights, AI Coach helps managers role-play real-world scenarios, improve their communication, and build more collaborative relationships with their teams.
Managing up isn’t about power dynamics or politics – it’s about partnership. When you understand your manager’s goals, communicate openly, and take initiative, you make everybody’s job easier.
In other words, it’s not about climbing over your boss – it’s about climbing with them.
Managing up means building a strong, productive relationship with your manager by understanding their goals, communication style, and priorities – and then adapting how you work to support them and your team’s success.
It creates better alignment, reduces miscommunication, and builds trust between managers and employees. Strong manager-employee relationships are directly linked to higher performance, engagement, and retention.
Begin by clarifying your manager’s top priorities, learning their preferred communication style, and proactively sharing updates, risks, and wins. Consistency and openness are key.
No – managing up isn’t about flattery or manipulation. It’s about partnership, accountability, and working together to achieve shared goals.
Absolutely. Managers can make it easier by being transparent about goals, welcoming feedback, and using tools like Culture Amp’s AI Coach to strengthen communication and collaboration skills.
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